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Thursday, May 30, 2013
Fish Ladder Park
Saturday, May 25, 2013
Co parenting






Do I like John now? Yes I do, I think I am blessed to have him for the father of my children. We have had to get through a lot of obstacles but we made it. My kids will have all the love of a mother and a father. I never understood why parents would try to turn their children against the other parent. I never tried to my self although I may have done so unintentionally. Soon after my kids were seeing their father full weekends every other week I saw the pain it brought them, the fear and sorrow of leaving me to go to him. I started telling them Daddy loves you, Daddy misses you. This past Friday when we met up they ran into his arms yelling DADDY! It made me so happy (a little Jealous, they don't do that when they see me :-) but I am old new)

I never know how to end what I am writing but I will end it with this. I wish every parent tried to be selfless and let their child love their other parent. If the other parent is no good the child will find out on their own and if the other parent is not than the child will get to grow up with two good parents and what is better than that?
Thursday, May 23, 2013
Trip to the library
I love to take my kids to the library. When I was a child the library was one of my favorite places to be. All different kinds of books about all different things. Now adays the library still has that and I want my kids to feel it. There is also a little corner with some comfy chairs and kids puzzles and such. So I can relax with a book while the kids get to play in a different place than home.
At the library downtown there is free parking for up to an hour, then they start charging. Getting into the library is a chore with two three year olds. We park and the kids tumble out of the car. Since they have to inspect everything from the car to the door it take awhile to get inside. Finally we get to the door and when we first get inside, we enter the lobby which has high echoing ceilings, so the kids want to yell and run. Getting through the lobby is a test in patients, one I do not always pass. Finally we get to the stairs and thankfully it is only one floor up. Unfortunately there is a bathroom at the top and my kids have to use every bathroom the see. Finally we get to the last leg. Just have to walk to the back where the puzzles are. That means walking past a glass case with toys inside which has to be inspected, past computers that have to be played with, and yet another set of bathrooms. Finally fifteen to twenty minutes after parking we get to sit and relax. Normally this walk would take me about 3-5 minutes.
Since I plan 15 minutes to get out of parking that means only about 25-30 minutes of library time. Usually enough for some good puzzle time and to pick out some books to take home. Despite the effort it takes I still love taking them. On days that I don't have the energy for all that, there is a smaller library closer by. There is no puzzles but the kids still like grabbing a book and sitting at the kid table for a good read.
I hope bringing them to the library so young will really develop a love for the library. Somewhere they can go for entertainment or just to get away.
Tuesday, May 21, 2013
Waking up
When I wake up with a beautiful little girl voice telling me time to get up, I can not really be to unhappy to get up. I do not like getting up early, but Emily does. So she comes in my room, and climbs into my bed. She curls her little body into mine and we snuggle for about half an hour. This is her time to wake up and my time to get ready for the inevitable -time to get up mommy-. Its funny when it is the child telling the parent time to get up, but I truely love it. The time is short and before long it will be me telling her to get up and she will probably not appreciate it as much as I do. So I enjoy the cuddles and let her get me up for now.
Thursday, May 16, 2013
Blandford Nature Center
Next at my encouragement Julian tried the balance beam. He fell off the first time but then insisted he get to try again. So he persisted...
and off he went and walked a good length of it without even falling. I have to say I was impressed. I am not sure if that is impressive but seeing my son balance across a beam on his second time, on a beam that I even felt wobbly on... yea pretty good!
I decided it was time to join Emily. Still digging away in the sand I thought to encourage her to try another activity.
She had no interest in another activity
Just wanted to play in the sand
I saw Julian in this little hut and called Emily over to join us. She had no interest. I figured I would have plenty more walking to take pictures of her but next moment she started screaming. I ran over to her and she was in panic mode over some bug that had crawled on her. While I was comforting her Julian started screaming, in a panic about some bug who had bitten him. At this time they both insisted we leave and I did not have the heart to refuse them. When we got into the very hot car they both insisted that I keep
their windows up so no bugs would jump in and attack them. It was so hot in the car and still they wanted their windows closed.
I think we will try the Blandford Nature Center again, just might have to apply some bug spray and keep out of the play area. Keep them walking and distracted.
They still seemed pretty happy when we got home and I guess that is the most important thing.
Friday, May 10, 2013
Making Pizza
When I divided all the ingredients I just split each thing in two. So each cup of sauce had way more than was actually needed. Julian of course did not know this and tried to spoon all of the sauce in the cup onto his dough. It was quite a lot. I helped him put some back and then showed him how to spread it around to cover the dough. Emily really did not need help here. She scooped some out and spread it on the dough pretty much on her own.
When it came to the pepperoni Emily got very upset that she could not open another package of pepperoni. I made her use the pepperoni on the plate and after she got over the little let down she enthusiastically decorated her pie.
Friday, May 3, 2013
Outside over inside
I am not against TV honestly I enjoy it and so I am not going to stop my kids from enjoying it. Outside is better though for them and I want them to enjoy being outside. I let my kids each pick out one episode of cartoons to watch while I prepare dinner. I enjoy some peace and they get some down time before dinner.
Hopefully this summer will be a reminder to them of how much better outside is than inside. I am trying to discover new places in and around Grand Rapids that are fun and interesting for them and for me.